Here's a good rule of thumb to live by:
You should be hesitant to trust someone who has already tricked or deceived you.
Like Trump has been saying, "They know what that did."
We all know what they did!
Fool Me Once, Shame On You. Fool Me Twice, Shame on Me.
I carry it one step further. If a female is mean to me with regard to my birthday, I dump that person. My birthday comes once a year and ruining my favorite day means bye bye. I was a classroom teacher who took no prisoners and that is why I am still surviving today....